Shawty You don't know me...

Four positions I've held:
1. Retail: Champs Sport
2. Houlihans Restaurant
3. Cleveland Metroparks Zoo
4. Defense Finance And Accouting Service

Four movies I can watch over and over?
1. Pretty In Pink
2. Love And Basketball
3. The Princess Bride
4. Dirty Dancing

Four places I've lived:
1. Cleveland, OH
2. Greenville, PA

Yeah... that's pretty much it...

Four shows I love to watch:
1. Any VH1 Reality Show... I know, I know...
2. Law & Order ALL Of Them
3. CSI ALL of them
4. Any decorating show on HGTV

Four places I've been on vacation:
1. Greenville, SC
2. The Pocono Mountains
3. Philidaelphia, PA
4. Browns Mills, NJ (hey, visiting friends)

Four websites I visit daily:
1. www.adelphia.net
2. www.google.com
3. www.americangreetings.com (kinda have to... since I work there and all)
4. www.myspace.com

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Lasagna
2. Shrimp
3. Potatos
4. Cheese

Four places I would rather be right now:
1. someplace warm
2. in Atlanta with my best friend
3. in the arms of my baby... I miss you boo
4. at home in bed

Four friends who I have tagged that I think will respond:
1. bloggers
2. ?
3. ?
4. ?

You've been tagged... I guess...

5 Songs That Describe My Mood... The "Head Over Heels" Edition

So... I know that my faithful... what? 5 readers... know all about my newest love interest... and it's been a good 5 months and it hasn't changed, which is probably a record for me... since dealing with That Nigga Dick, anyway...

I am... completely, totally, blindly, foolishly... head over fucking heels in love with this man... I mean, I don't quite know HOW it happened, but I do know that it happened... and I know that I feel it...

Now, I'm a firm believer that you honestly can only believe 85% of what a man tells you... maybe 80%... but all the time, he tells me how much he loves me and how happy he is that we've found each other again... and as much as some people around me would like to believe it's bullshit because of the circumstances, it really doesn't sound like bullshit... it doesn't feel like bullshit... you know how when a person tells you they love you, you can feel it? Like a tingle in your back or like butterflies in your stomach? Yeah, that's EXACTLY what I'm talking about... maybe it's just me, maybe it's not... but everyone I know has had SOMEBODY that they've felt all gooey about, and when that feeling is reciprocated, you just know... and I know...

So I bring to you, for your listening pleasure... "5 Songs That Describe My Mood-- The Head Over Heels Edition"--

1. Dangerously In Love- Beyonce-- I mean... I'm trying to tell you... I caught myself one day thinking about our future... I had a vision of us, a house, 3 kids (not including the 2 he already has)... it was surreal... that's when I knew, this was that real shit... and when I told him about it, he says to me "Yeah, Boo, I can see that too..."

2. Real Love-- Skyy-- I don't know how many of you remember this song... it was released in the early 90's... I remember dancing with LeDon in my Momma's living room when this song came on the radio... anybody from Northeast Ohio remembers "Pillow Talk" on 93.1 WZAK... my mother was at Bible Study, it was about 8:30 in the evening, and he and I were on some bullshit... even though he was 14 at the time, he was still about 4 or 5 inches taller than I was (we can change that to about 10 inches now, the top of my head reaches to his shoulder)... and he leaned in tentatively... and we shared our first kiss... during this song... July 17th, 1993...

3. Can't Let Go-- Anthony Hamilton-- Now, I know my boy could use a comb and a shave, but the nig has vocals... and this song reminds me of all the negativity around me... my moms on some "All he's gonna do when he gets out is the same old stuff. He's a drug dealer and that's what he's gonna do when he gets out if they let him out." Like he's some violent ass dude or something... I mean, don't get me wrong, he did deal drugs... that's why he's in prison right now... but so what? He didn't give anybody anything that they didn't ask for... and if it wasn't him, it would've been somebody else out here trafficking in narcotics... most of the people in the facility he's in are in on dope cases... so it ain't just him... and I don't care what nobody says... every person on this planet has made a decision they wish they hadn't that put them in a position they wish they wouldn't have been in... he's no different... and as for my momma on some "He won't change" shit... everybody deserves the chance to turn they're life around... I'm sure he doesn't EVER want to go back to prison... I know the things he's done are wrong, I'm not trying to justify it in any way, shape, or form... but I look past all that and see a beautiful young man who simply went down the wrong path... and he's trying to make it right... which brings me to my next song...

4. How It's Gonna Be-- LuvHer-- I like this song because it reminds me of the same things that the previous song does... I mean, listen to the lyrics... It's his way of living/ Who am I to tell him/ That what he's doing/ Just ain't right/ Standing on the corner/ Hustling all day/ Under street lights/ Even though he's thugging/ I love him/ And I want him in my life/ No matter what people say/ I'm gonna love him anyway/ Cause he does a lot for me/ And that is why I'm gonna be/ A lover/ A friend/ A soldier/ Til the end/ And that's how it's gonna be... and that's how it's gonna be...

5. Love-- Destiny's Child-- You know, it's been a while since I posted the lyrics to an entire song just so ya'll would know why I'm feeling a certain song... but this song deserves the lyrics to be posted... simply because right now, this song describes EXACTLY what I'm feeling... I need for ya'll to feel me...

It had been many years since I've been in love
With a real man
I had given up on love
I didn't think a good man existed in this world
I was tired of searching
Because of relationships I've dealt with in the past
Couldn't fathom being another mess
When I least expected it
I found you
And because of you
I know how it feels to be...

Love
And when I look into your eyes I see
Love
Pillow talk at night I can hear your
Love
Ooh, the next morning we make
Love
I'm so in love

Through you, I live and love again
Open the path to happiness
Through you, I've learned to smile again
I thank God for you
Through you, I live and love again
I trust you
Just guide me, take my hand
Through you, I learn to smile again
I love you, I love you, I love you

Now it's been three years since we've been in love
And you keep doin' things to show your proud of
Thirty beauties in the room only me you see
The confidence you give, lives in me
I vow to never break your heart or never let you down
For better or worse, I'll always be around
And with you here, to share my life so complete
And because of you I know how it feels to be...

Love
And when I look into your eyes I see
Love
Pillow talk at night I can hear your
Love
Ooh, the next morning we make
Love
I'm so in love

Through you, I live and love again
Open the path to happiness
Through you, I've learned to smile again
I thank God for you
Through you, I live and love again
I trust you
Just guide me, take my hand
Through you I learn to smile again
I love you, I love you, I love you

I thank God
For you...

Your loves amazing
And like the rain
It fell on me
Wanting it more and more
Cause your loves in the air
I breathe, lying beside me
You see into the soul of me
And your spirit sets me free

Through you I live and love again
Open the path to happiness
Through you I've learned to smile again
I thank God for you
Through you I live and love again
I trust you
Just guide me, take my hand
Through you I learn to smile again
I love you, I love you, I love you

Now it's been three years since we've been in love
And you keep doin' things to show your proud of
Thirty beauties in the room only me you see
The confidence you give, lives in me
I vow to never break your heart or never let you down
For better or worse, I'll always be around
And with you here, to share my life so complete
And because of you I know how it feels to be...


And there you have it... enjoy.

Nothing To Blog About... And I'm Sleepy...

Thanks Nahmix!

9 Lasts:

Last dollar spent: Not yet… still got a few
Last cigarette: 20 minutes ago
Last beverage: Canada Dry Ginger Ale
Last phone call: This stalking ass dude named Antwon
Last movie: The Princess Bride… hey, I love that movie!
Last song played: It’s Real Love by Skyy--- can you say 80’s? I knew you could…
Last bubble bath: Last Wednesday
Last time you cried: about 2 hours ago
Last thing you ate: apple cinnimon pancakes, bacon, grits, scambled eggs, hash browns… damn, I’m hungry again just typing that there!

8 Have You Evers:

Have you ever dated a best friend: yes, HUGE mistake
Have you ever skinny dipped: yessir
Have you ever kissed somebody and regretted it: nah... now have I had sex with someone and regretted it would be the question....
Have you ever lost someone you loved: yes... to many times and too many different ways...
Have you ever been dumped: once or twice
Have you ever been drunk and thrown up: more times than I care to admit
Have you ever run away: I tried… moms caught up with me too fast

7 States You Have Visted:

1. New York
2. Pennsylvania
3. New Jersey
4. South Carolina
5. Delaware
6. Michigan
7. Maryland

6 Things You've Done Today:

1. Sleep
2. went over my best friends house
3. spoke to LeDon
4. got gas in my car
5. read blogs
6. apply for a job with FedEx

5 Of Your Favorite Things:

1. people: my family and friends
2. movie: The Princess Bride
3. music: hip hop
4. band: the roots
5. books: Ion’t know… so many

4 People You Can Tell [Almost]Anything:

1. God
2. LeDon
3. Desiree
4. Cheri

3 Things That Make You Smile:

1. Baby pictures
2. Sweet, sincere compliments
3. Memories of my grandparents

2 Things You Want To Do Before You Die:

1. sky dive
2. get married… again

1 Quote to Share:

1. “If you keep doing what you do, you keep getting what you got. If you want the things around you to change, you have to changethe way you do things.” Ruby Valentine—my momma (such a smart lady)